“I am seeing this recurring theme on OKCupid and other sites that every girl gets completely spammed all the time.

How am I supposed to send a good first message and expect the girl to read it when she is getting 30 a day?

She has a lot of experience when it comes to online dating, so take what she has to say seriously! To start with, I want to set straight a common misconception about online dating. The great thing about online dating is that it gives you a lot more options.

PLUS Master copywriter Ted Nicholas found a good headline can perform up to 28% better when framed in quotation marks.

Here’s a new article which I wrote as a special to Yahoo! And while I never write emails for others, the request makes perfect sense.

I could be making a vast generalization, but to an extent, this doesn’t matter.

Another guest post, this time from a good friend of mine – Sebastyne from Australia. For a girl, it means a flood of absolutely ridiculous emails, and this is where I come in.

That is one reason why it is a great extension of dating options for people who are quite picky – such as myself.

I would have never met my husband “in the real life” even if we lived in the same city, as he would spend time in places I would probably not set a foot in.Men who treat women as unique and interesting individuals stand a much greater shot of receiving a response. The most interesting tidbit in her profile is the thing that sounds like it couldn’t have been written by anybody else in the world. Whatever it is, take her quirky tidbit and turn it into your pickup line. The most effective way to catch someone’s attention in an initial email is with fiction. Because the truth, as we’ve established, is boring. But does any of that sound like a good pickup line to you? A good joke doesn’t require an explanation – it’s obviously a joke.The thing is, even if she’s interesting, she most likely wrote a whole bunch of clichés in her profile: “I’m nice, smart, kind, warm, funny, honest and family-oriented. I’m looking for my best friend, lover and partner in crime for a lifetime of love and laughter.” (Scary how easy it is to approximate the typical online dating profile, isn’t it? Even a specific response like “I noticed you enjoy biking. For example, if you’re writing to the foot model, you might say: Let’s drink to our fashion careers, Evan Sure, it’s a little goofy, but people actually respond to this stuff. Because it’s different, it’s audacious and, in a strange way, it’s kind of smart. It’s not an idle compliment or a generic, “Ooh, look what we have in common” line. Start your comment in the subject heading of the email, like this… Talk to you soon, Evan If these kinds of emails don’t work for you, no problem. Just keep in mind that the confidence it takes to write an email like that is compelling. ———————————————————— Of all the things that clients (especially men) ask me to help them with, the most common query involves assistance with writing introductory emails.After all, most people’s profiles don’t exactly give you a ton of material to work with, do they? Ask yourself if what you’re writing sounds completely original.I’m a urban explorer, adventurer at heart, and love playing drums on the side.” This gives her something easy to reply to and encourages her to respond.