We’re made up of students from campuses throughout Chicago who have a passion to know, serve, and worship Jesus Christ with our lives.

Sometimes, Christ followers can act like the guy who is waiting for the perfect girl.

Kevin De Young’s book “Just Do Something” provides biblical and practical help!

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If you're older than 31, you should wait at least three hours!

My thought: There are a total of 31 rules in the book and they are each explained in detail with real-life anecdotes sprinkled in.

Skimming the table of contents alone and seeing so many "don'ts," it's easy to wonder, The fact is, not really.

The Rules require you to be a passive participant in the dating game, which, for someone like me who never likes to sit and wait for things to magically happen, is pretty hard to do.

Crossroads has an ever growing list of our most recommended books that every Christian college student should read.

Book Jacket: Putting in their hour or two on the weekend, many Christians take the rest of the week off, neglecting the church and her needs. Some shop around, looking for a church that suits their lifestyle. Bestselling author Joshua Harris calls Christians to stop playing the field and commit, just as Christ is committed to us, His bride.After a frank conversation about his distance, she learned that he held a list of the perfect woman in his mind— and she didn’t quite measure up.The issue wasn’t with my friend, but with his inability to commit.She's now (presumably) happily married with two kids... It's taken me a while to face the fact that there are rules of engagement one must follow to properly attract and trap -- I mean keep -- a partner.For a long time, I acknowledged them but met them with resistance.I do, however, want to acknowledge how all of us, can from time to time, do the same thing with the church.