This “I’m never going to find a good relationship” gal leaves men unable to get any traction during courting or in a relationship.

The wall she has erected is just too high for him to climb in order to get to the other side.

So I thought I’d tell you about the experience men have when they’re trying to “date like a grownup.” If you’ve read my e Book, you know that I believe strongly that empathizing with men is absolutely essential to your dating and relationship success.

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She gets stuck in affairs with men who never commit, and it’s often the nice guys who are interested in her who bear the brunt of her hurt and anger.

The Scaredy Cat he Scaredy Cat has been emotionally wounded by men in the past, and she can’t let go of it.

I’ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in their 40s, 50s and beyond.

In the following days I’m going to give you some of their stories of dating after 40 and relationships.

Here are some of the types of women men deal with as they date and relate.

As a dater after 40, knowing this will help you as you meet and connect with men.

She’s looking for her guy to be interesting, keep her laughing, ask her all about herself, and give her butterflies…all on the first date. That man then makes a poor impression (understandably), and the date is chalked up to another “he just wasn’t right for me” experience.

The Wow Me Woman is often single for a very, very long time.

Her life isn’t going the way she wants and she just can’t figure out why.

With men, she might complain that they just “don’t get her,” but the truth is that she’s giving them every reason to head for the hills with her off-handed comments and negativity.

By default she clings to the same type of guy she wanted in high school or college. (See the Wow Me Woman below.) The nice, relationship-minded men get quickly discarded by the 18 year old.