When your guards are down they will make the hit on you.... THIS IS AN INFORMATIVE BLOG AND REQUIRES NO FEEDBACK!
1) Ask your dates to email more than YM chat to enable you to check his IP Address 2) Scammers work in a group and with lots of patience.
They will send few scammers to surrounds you and they can chat with you for couple of months up to 8 months of courtship before they scam you.
Unlike their Nigerian-based buddies, they have a lot of time on their hands, nice laptops at home (and not some filthy Internet cafes), they are more smart and educated, and have more money.
They have ability to do a good Photoshop job and open fake websites.
Even if you find someone else using the photos, they may be a scammer too using the same stolen photos. He's not even going to leave the safety and anonymity of his Internet cafe.
Cash wire transfers are never retrievable at all we're afraid. It’s anonymous too, and can also be picked up at any outlet world-wide no matter where the scammer claims to be. He may make a few threatening phone calls to you, but once he realizes he's not getting anywhere then he'll give up and move on to his next "meal ticket".
They have all the time in the world to make you fall in love with them. 3) Always ask in depth questions about their job, life, childhood, student’s days, and their education and if they always shift the topic back to you, mean they are detouring the details; occasionally they will get offended and make you scared to ask further.
4) If you suspect he is a scammer just gently bid farewell and do not ever response to his chat invite.
the above is to check if the scammers cheat about their whereabouts and online time.