There’s a reason why the stereotype of the high school quarterback dating the school cheerleader exists.

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Shy women usually don’t have the same problems us guys do.

I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.

It basically means that your looks aren’t nearly as important to attract a girlfriend as you probably believed. but the primary thing that attracts or repels girls is not your looks. If you think back to your high school or college, who were all the cutest girls dating?

The popular and charismatic guys, the ones who threw parties, led the sports team, etc.

What would I even do with a girlfriend if I had one?

So for years, I watched from the sidelines as the girls I liked went out with the more popular and confident guys.You have to put yourself into situations where you have a chance to come in contact with women. If you don’t have many friends or a social circle, then you’ll have to get some or be proactive in other ways. And that’s when the attraction part of our brain was designed by evolution.Pro tip: check out Meet and see if there’s any events that seem interesting to you. Cavemen who mated with younger women were more likely to have healthy and surviving kids, so now guys are wired to be attracted to younger women in general.As long as a girl is cute or attractive, many guys will see her as girlfriend material… The truth is that many shy men can go months or even years without having a girlfriend, dating or even kissing a girl.Some women claim that shyness is cute and that you should just “be yourself”…but when they say “shy” they probably mean the strong silent type of guy, not the nervous socially awkward type like I was.