What I mean is that I like them right where they are…I know she’s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we’re together it’s nice, but there’s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more “official”.

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You need to have a clear idea of what you consider a relationship to be. Some guys need time and there’s nothing wrong with giving a guy time.

Attempting to mold a man/relationship into being the relationship you want is a losing battle – progress is an illusion if you want something that he ultimately does not. Give him space to step up and be that man without manipulating, prodding, hinting, guilting or nagging him to be that man. No good relationship was ever built on the grounds of manipulation. But ultimately you won’t get the relationship you want unless you’re willing to pull the plug on a relationship that isn’t what you want.

Some of the local girls also hang out in the area, but most of the high-end local ladies prefer nicer areas and fancy nightclubs.

Prostitution business is also active in Bui Vien area especially at the massage parlors and its also getting more open on the streets.

You can date call girls for about VND 300k-500k/shot (about USD 15-25).

There are no real red-light districts in Ho Chi Minh City.

My point in all of this is that if you withdraw, you will most likely get him to put in more effort, but that will only take you so far.

Ultimately, if you want a relationship to be as you want it to be, you need to be true to what you really want.

Bui Vien street is kind of like Khao San Road in Bangkok, but less crazy.