Tell the truth because the point is to eventually meet people in real life.

If you have a cool job or know some interesting facts discuss them in the BIO. Be a little different, something witty or funny usually works best. It’s good to mention what city you’re from when using Tinder.

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This will help you to avoid mutual disappointment when meeting your match for the first time.

If you’re not 6’2“, don’t live in a cool city or have an exotic job, stick with something funny or edgy. But mostly whatever puts a smile on my face, like going out for a drink with you would.

We tested sending 2 types of messages to 20 different girls.

10 of the matches were approached with the usual, general message about how they were enjoying the weather. Using oddball pickup lines, 7 out of 10 girls replied within the first 2 hours!

The second picture can be with a group of friends or some other reference point, where girls can see your posture. If you have an interesting hobby, the third picture is where to show it! If you’re good at skiing, surfing, or riding a motorcycle, show it with just ONE picture.

Make your pictures personal by displaying your interests, favorite sports, or your lifestyle. For example, I’m more open to guys who share my interest in climbing.

Have you ever wondered: this girl is cute, it’s a shame I don’t know if she likes me or not?

I don’t know about you, but I often think that people should send clear signals about whether they like us or not.

If you’re insecure and don’t know how to flirtatiously tease her later on, you’re better off sticking to normal questions.