Continue reading » Number of View: 1616 Hi Gilbert, I am writing to you as I had gotten your email from Singapore Support Site for The Divorced. I have received a summon to attend Court as I did not allow the Child’s Father to see him.

Now the other party wants the Court to imprison me as there was a contempt of the order on my end.

For sure, I have learned the biggest and painful lesson in my life.

Its totally heartbreaking and I’m torn into pieces….…

Continue reading » Number of View: 908 I am Tracy here and feeling very very depressed over my husband’s consistent betrayal.

This may sound nitty gritty, but it just shows how far apart our expectations are. I’ve been divorced from my estranged wife and I’ve been rendered homeless since as HDB repeatedly refuses to give me a queue number for their BTO projects saying that my son and I do not form a “proper” family nucleus.

In the meantime, the courts have awarded 75% of our matrimonial home to my ex-wife even though I’ve produced proof of her adultery as well as custody of our children to the immoral woman.

This makes both of us feel better and still could remain as friends in the future. Anyway, I feel better now after talking to some of my friends.

Though still feel a bit lost but I have started planning for my future – in terms of income and retirement.

I would like some advice from you on this before I formally engage a lawyer to take up the case. We are each other’s first boy/girlfriend, and thus no prior relationship before that.

I would like to provide some background on my marriage. There are naturally a lot of differences in a relationship and I thought it will all worked out eventually as we have stayed on in the relationship for 7 years before we got married, but it was not like that.

On one occasion when we were fighting about his cheating, he physically hurt me: flipped me off the bed with such force that I somersaulted and landed oddly on my back on the floor, restrained my hands when I tried to call the police and slapped me in the face so hard that I instantly fell to my knees from a standing position.

Emotionally, I was devastated as I never imagined that he could lay hands on me.

During the earlier years, he also often indulged in viewing pornography and doing online sex talks with those women over internet.