First, he’s simply wrong to think women can only date one man at a time.

Women, especially the hot ones, can and do date multiple men concurrently.

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This is why men, unlike women in their primes, cannot wait around for lovers to fall in their laps. This also explains why men, in general, have a firmer grip on the reality of the sexual market than do women: when you’re a hot babe, you can afford ignorance and platitudes because the tidal wave of messages will come regardless.

But a man who wallows in pretty lies will soon find himself banished to Pudpullia, where boners go to chafe.

They may have the pick of the bunch to begin with, especially if they happen to be really attractive, but they can still only date one man at a time—they must still filter the largely undifferentiated onslaught of male attention into yes and no piles.

Then the yes pile has to be sorted through in much the same way as anyone else does it—by talking, bonding, finding common interests, realising there’s been a big mistake, or a wonderful discovery.

The results should be little surprise to regular guests of this mysterious sanctum sanctorum, but are worth examining in detail for the clarity they provide to men who are considering making online dating the fulcrum of their mate selection strategy.

The experiment: How many unsolicited messages do men get compared to women?

A reader telegraphed the Chateau a link to a very interesting experiment that an intrepid blogger ran on OKCupid.

He created ten fake profiles, five men and five women of increasing physical attractiveness, and measured the response rate he received over a four-month period.

(Strangely, the putative hottest man got no messages.) Conclusion: Looks matter a lot more for women’s mating success. ” Exquisite Emma: “128.” Handsome Joe: 😯 Even more depressing for those above average-looking men who think they can bank on their decent looks to score pussy, the ugliest girl (that cow all the way over on the left) got one more message than the three men, from left to right, got in total.

Or: looks matter a lot less for men’s mating success (relative to all the other criteria they must meet to satisfy women’s 463 bullet-point checklist). As we can see, the two hottest girls are cleaning up in the attention whore sweepstakes. The plain jane got almost as many messages as the two hottest men combined. Finally, the results after four months: Holy mackerel! The next time you hear a feminist whine about the patriarchy, show her this graph and tell her where the real power resides. The ugliest man got nothing after four months of desperation.

The blogger who performed the experiment also analyzed the content of the messages that the OKCupid customers were leaving the fake profiles. Boring beta chumps who are truly nice outnumber charming aloof jerks who are truly cocky by about 1 million to 1.