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I was going about my merry way thinking everything was , it was wasn’t.

After I got over my shock and anger, I was floored, not only at his behavior, which came out of left field, but how sharp a contrast this was to how we used to be. All we needed was for him to just change his mind with this ridiculous break up.

It sort of teaches you how to turn the tables, get on “their side” as part of strategy and even the playing field. At that time, divorce was the worst possible outcome, but I was tired of feeling so out of control.

I was stunned to see that my trip / indifference was actually right on. Next up, him and the rest of my life just to survive, if I was honest with myself, I loved him and did not want a divorce. In the days before our outing, I read both books, cover to cover twice.

Because I was going to be several hundred miles away. My misery and desperation no longer had a death grip on me. Weirder still, he sounded almost concerned and then confused.

Getting away from the situation was a breath of fresh air. It was wonderful to see people who loved me just as I was, without picking apart my flaws. I made arrangements for two of our (and now my) good friends to come and see me at my home in a few weeks. Believe it or not, when I got back, I was not even that desperate to pick the difficult dance back up. Almost as though he were worried about, or at least trying to figure out, my sudden silence.

I read it again several times and put the plan in the back of my mind.

I also got my hands on another book called which is all about coming up with make up strategies when your partner is resistant or the break up has already happened.

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I’ll assume if you are reading this, you already know or suspect that you really do want to save your marriage. I don’t know your situation and can’t make any guarantees, but I hope that something here is helpful.

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