” Take those studies, surveys and polls and throw them in the garbage! And on top of that, some might have had a bad experience or unpleasant memories of spanking from when they were a child.

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If you are simply looking for someone to spank, or be spanked yourself for that matter, there are personal sites that do exist, but if you are actually trying to find a woman for a long term relationship on one of these sites, you really need a lot of luck and patience.

The problem is most women don’t place personal ads looking for a spanking partner, and if you do happen to find one that does, you will be in competition with at least 50 other men for that same woman. Shadowlane has one every year in Vegas, and there are smaller parties and get-togethers in many other major cities throughout the world. The fact is they are all around you and have always been!

If I don’t like a woman’s personality, she transforms into a witch before my very eyes. Needless to say when it comes to relationships, spanking is the one thing I must have. And why would I or anyone want to be in a relationship and not be happy.

And if I love her personality, she transforms into a super model. To make it clear that I don’t just have a slight interest in spanking. This is not a phase or something that could be “cured” with any amount of therapy. Now some of you might be saying, “But how do you find a mate that enjoys spanking when studies have suggested that only a very small percentage of the population enjoy it? So if someone is asked in a study or survey if they enjoy being spanked, and they have never tried it, they probably are not going to be putting an X in that box.

So if I would have been asked in a survey which vegetables I liked, the list would have been very short. Even vegetables that used to make me want to throw up, like onions, I now enjoy.

The point I am trying to make is that our tastes change, and something that we might not have liked or even hated in the past, we now love today, or at least find tolerable. If presented properly to an adult it could turn into an enjoyable experience.

Out of the ten serious relationships I have had (lasting over a year), every single one of them were cool with spanking.

Sure it could be a coincidence, but I think choosing the right personality plays a huge role.

She likes to have fun Likes to try new and interesting things Likes to laugh Spontaneous Easy going A fan of comedies Very open with communication Doesn’t take herself too seriously Has no problems expressing her feelings Is comfortable with herself and her body These are all “yes” signals when it comes to spanking.

I am not saying that if you meet someone with one or all of these traits you are guaranteed the perfect spanking partner, but your chances are greatly improved in my opinion.

Many people do the same thing when in comes to being attracted to a person.